Tuesday 10 April 2012

MELANCHOLY

We sometimes buy antiques with a sorrowful or gloomy theme - our forebears did not shrink from reminding each other and themselves that life was often a vale of tears, so they are not uncommon. At the Lincolnshire Showground antiques fair this week, one of our finds was an early mourning sampler.



A survivor of this depleted family recorded its sad history in the 1830s.

Sometimes a sampler remembers the death of an infant or small child...


...while others proclaim love for dear, departed grandparents.


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This handsome young man's memory was saved in this soulful portrait, mounted in a mourning jewel 


with his hair, still golden and unfaded.


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We sometimes find snuff boxes in the shape of coffins...


...and wonder how well a gift in this form would be received today, perhaps as a nice new lunch box for Dad? I'm sure our good friend John (who has been known to drive a hearse to the seaside for a jolly summer outing) would appreciate one of those.


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I found this small coffin-shaped oak box recently and have been puzzling over its use. Was it fashioned as a final resting place for a favourite hamster? Its lid screws down so perhaps it was a secret hidey hole for a treasure, its shape a warning to "Keep Out"...


...or maybe not.


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6 comments:

  1. have to confess I have a penchant for sorrowful mementos...one of my favourite finds was a Victorian dog's tombstone from a slavage yard where they were going to smash it for rockery stone!
    I listed an 1880s family register sampler on ebay a while back and was amazed that it went to a long-lost family member living in Italy!

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    1. I love it when we reunite family & heirloom - it rarely happens. Occasionally a sampler makes it home and I once reunited a scholarly work with the author's gg grandson and also a painting of granny's farmhouse made it back to the family.

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  2. I too am a fan of the memento mori. I have a special fondness for the victorian hair pieces. I am so curious about your tiny coffin. Could it have been a sample? Whatever...it's intriguing.
    To Ted and Bunny above....I am so happy to hear that sampler made its way back to its own family.

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    1. Yes, we thought it might be a sample too.

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  3. I Love your finds as I have a real weakness for the macabre as I've always wanted to be a Funeral Director! I have a fascination for vintage hearses and love the fact that your friend John has driven one to the seaside. We have in our collection a real spine (an old one) but on our wish list is a real Victorian anatomical human skeleton...I'm not weird honestly.
    Have a great weekend.
    Jo xx

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    1. John did meet with disapproval when he drove his children to school in the hearse - but really, he's a very sweet bloke & a devoted father.

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